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So on Friday I had a date planned with MrPhD.
We had a few sort of awkward conversations during the week but I chalked it up to nervousness on both of our parts.
So sort of the funniest thing during the day was a message I actually received from MrDentalSurgeon.
Yes the guy that stood me up on Wednesday (read here if you missed it).
Which was kind of good because then I got to chat up MrPhD and MrConsultant on the phone Wednesday night instead.
And it led to Friday night date plans with MrPhD.
So on Friday I was busying myself during the day with an exam I had to turn in for a certification.
A pretty full day at work.
And getting myself a little nervous for my first date with MrPhD.
Then PING...and this shows up on my phone from MrDentalSurgeon.
"How was your week and are you in/out of town this weekend? :)
What I think....ummmm hey there date ditcher...haven't heard from you since Monday...
What I say "Great! I'm headed to Kingston for the weekend. How was your week?"
He responds..."Busy...(some stuff about work related stuff)...Looking forward to next 3 days off/relax. R U leaving tonite or tomorrow morning?"
What I think...SERIOUSLY no mention of ditching without even a "hey things got crazy busy can we raincheck"... or even "sorry the week got so crazy busy sorry I bailed on Wednesday"...annoying...and I seriously hate shortened things like "R U" versus Are you...
What I say..."That's great! Tomorrow morning which is good because traffic is looking crazy on the 401" (the main highway across Ontario).
He responds "R u up for seeing a movie tonight? I can come to your 'hood ? :)"
What I think...really a single fun nice girl and you are asking her at 4:28pm to do something that evening...on a Friday night...you cannot be serious....ughhh and I hate the word "'hood".
What I say "Would love to but I already have plans tonight"
He responds "Np. Have a great weekend :)"
What I think...maybe if you invite me earlier in the week?
AND still no mention of the Wednesday night ditch...kind of rude actually.
What I say "You too :)"
I don't mean to play games with this guy but seriously?!
I think it just goes to show what type of priority I would be to him.
So I think I will gracefully bow out of that one.
Then the rest of Friday afternoon I had to contend with MrPhD who could not make a decision to save his life.
Like he couldn't decide where to go.
Or what to wear (seriously).
Or even where to meet up prior.
I hate calling the shots with things.
I do enough of that during the day.
So when it comes to evenings and weekend I just want to relax and be the lady.
Which means I would like the guy to step it up and call the shots.
So I definitely have to fill you in on my Fridate with MrPhD.
A talk about feelings.
A parking ticket at 2:06am.
It sure was a doozy.